i am sick lately finishing all the requirements for graduation... hopefully will be graduating my nursing course next month yepey.. i am glad to find new friends here, btw i am into rush my husband to be.. but been praying for it :) because i am willing to spend the rest of my life with him...

I'm new here...and i'm here to find true love. i will be telling you many things about me when we come across the boarders. you may contact me at 09216515921 and or at 09061410182. thanks

i'm here to find true love. i will be telling you many things about me when we come across the boarders. you may contact me at 09216515921 and or at 09061410182. MUCH THANKS.MWAHMWAHMWAH

hi.this is my first blog..cno po want to meet her in batangas if u want want one night stand mag isa lng me olweiz sa bhay..if u want hers my y.m flameheart_1127@yahoo.com

hi.this is my first blog..cno po want to meet her in batangas if u want want one night stand mag isa lng me olweiz sa bhay..if u want hers my y.m flameheart_1127@yahoo.com

hi.this is my first blog..cno po want to meet her in batangas if u want want one night stand mag isa lng me olweiz sa bhay..if u want hers my y.m flameheart_1127@yahoo.com

I'm sorry I have to charge something. I barely make enough from the ads to cover the hosting so if I didn't charge anything there wouldn't be much point to running it.

I took this over about a month ago and have been busy ever since rewriting the entire site to make it much faster and better in every way. It's a huge project and months away from completion yet but when I'm done, you will see some major improvements that will blow you away.

When the new improved site is unveiled, I will do some marketing that will bring in thousands of fresh new members. The enhanced features should help to make this place more fun

all we need is just a previledge and a little risk in life to explore the things beyond our expectation on meeting some potential new friends.. PAST-is an experience PRESENT-is an experiment FUTURE-is an expectation so dont forget to 'use' your Experience in your experiment to meet your expectation....

I AM NEW MEMBER HERE ( 12/02/09)

I WISH TO FIND MY SPECIAL SOMEONE HERE

"MY DREAM OF"

Every morning
When I open my eyes
I wish that you’re here
And give me a kiss
Your beautiful smile
That brightens my day
And whisper me the words
“I love you”
Share with you
Through good times
And in bad times
For the rest of my life
I want to be at your side
Holding my hand
While we walk together
While you hold my hand
We talk our dreams
And laugh together
And we get married
To be the mother of your child
To be with you
For the rest of my life

"CATHERINE JOY GRIPAL DE LEON"

Hello Im Jenny Santos, I hope to scout and finally meet the man of my dreams. You can reach me through my yahoo messenger account santos.jenny42@yahoo.com please give me a buzz

Hello,hello there....My name is zyra torrefranca..20 years old...living in cebu city philippines....loking for someone for the rest of my life....i am loving, caring, understanding, thoughtful, generous, one man woman, God fearing, sincere and most of all down to earth person. I enjoy doing indoors and outdoors.. Well, i am looking for the right guy. A man who man enough to see where he stand. A very thoughtful, generous, kindness, one man woman, loving, caring, sincere.

Here's a little thought of me... My friends say I am tender hearted, sensitive and a little shy but I love to make jokes and have fun too. I am sometimes soft spoken and always affectionate. I like to think Im a sophisticated lady, I like to dress nice and I care for the way I look. If you want to know more of me you can IM at zyra1989 at yahoo. Thanks and good luck. I am hoping to find my husband here.

p.s. I prefer your age would be between 25 to 40 years old. Ethnicity is welcome!

another day in the life of a callcenter agent.I must admit being in this field takes my social life to zero...My usual routine goes having to wake up in the middle of the night,and going to work even before the roosters can make their 1st morning crow.At work u get to speak with at least a hundred american customers...Either it's a complaint about a charge on the credit card,problems accessing their accounts,or the endless whines and insults we get at the lamest reasons...I try to endure the hazards of my work because it PAYS...Imagine on an 8 hour shift u get to navigate thru the internet,have a free meal,and just sit all the time until your stomach bulges.I guess that's the reason why my waistline went from 28 to 32.And even if there are annoying customers,others tend to make up for all the hassle...Some are even nicer which makes the whole shift seem worthwhile.And now i'm home,having a hard time using my phone,i thought about calling my service provider to file a complaint...But then i stop and think,what the hell...It's just me...

Why does no one go to the free chat room?

Hello
First day in fildate !!!
But I'm already on Amoureux com as Santeuil, and it's maybe better to exchange a real conversation !
Cause this one is a "false free"...

hi there... just wanted to greet you guys.. take care alot!!!! i cant send message.. i taught only guys were able to pay premium to send money why it also girls,?..

hello,  im hoping to find my true love here!

Who I am, it's easy to see this person hidden deep inside of me loving and caring, gentle and kind education and experiences fill my mind slow to anger, long to love I turn my eyes to Heaven above perfect I'm not, nor ever will I be who I am, it is I, just me Working hard and doing the best that I can long lonely nights, ache for the touch of his hand my shoulders are broad, for they carry a load as my feet drift down this beautiful road A lover, not a fighter, that is who I am with the roar of a lion but the heart of a lamb if I let you in, close to my heart you will be my passions, my joys and my fears you will see Who I am, a woman good and kind with a love to give that transcends time lean in closer and look into my eyes for who I am, you might be suprised.

hii.. hope,, i can find true love,, who wants too..

Billy Graham was returning to Charlotte after a speaking engagement and when his Plane arrived there was a limousine there to transport him to his home. As he prepared to get into the limo, he stopped and spoke to the driver.’ You know' he said, 'I am 87 years old and I have never driven a limousine. Would you mind if I drove it for a while. 'The driver said,’ No problem. Have at it.’ Billy gets into the driver's seat and they head off down the highway. A short distance away sat a rookie State Trooper operating his first speed trap. The long black limo went by him doing 70 in a 55 mph zone. The trooper pulled out and easily caught the limo and he got out of his patrol car to begin the procedure. The young trooper walked up to the driver's door and when the glass was rolled down, he was surprised to see who was driving. He immediately excused himself and went back to his car and called his supervisor. He told the supervisor, 'I know we are supposed to enforce the law.... But I also know that important people are given certain courtesies. I need to know what I should do because I have stopped a very important person.'The supervisor asked, 'Is it the governor?'The young trooper said, 'No, he's more important than that.' The supervisor said, 'Oh, so it's the president ' The young trooper said, 'No, he's even more important than that.'The supervisor finally asked, 'Well then, who is it?’ The young trooper said,'I think its Jesus, because he's got Billy Graham for a chauffeur!'

If ever u like to visit here in CEBU or know other persons that likes to come here in CEBU and wants help in booking hotels easier well Im here to help u and its free. I would like to arrange your hotel accomodation here in cebu. I would be very glad if u can refer me to ur friends and families.

Hello, This is my first blog hope you like reading it. I just join this website, hoping to find my true love i know its very hard but i am very determine ...let us start by exchanging emails or chat...

This is my first blog Im jonard of manila 21 old,im here to post my blog i accept my sexuality that im am gay ... i am looking man whose looking for gayboy for companion in real life :) hit me up freshgay_2000@yahoo.com tel no: 09286512539

Hello Everyone... Happy New Year!!! good luck to your search!!!! Life is a journey and we should enjoy every moment of it...think Positive and it wil come...and knock in your door..:)

hello,
im just looking for a new friends.
if you like to be my friend. you can mail me your number.
thank you.

Is Manny Pacquiao your greatest sports hero ever? He is a great boxer... Most 'experts' didn't even give Manny a chance to beat De La Hoya... but he absolutely destroyed him... I wish Mayweather would come out of retirement and fight him... I think Pacman is the only man who can beat him... and i wish someone would... Mayweather is a jerk... he has no class... Pacquiao is a great champion... he has class... you should be proud of your champion.

helo poeple..im here looking for a nice man..hope i can find it here...

HELLO LADIES IM NEW HERE THIS IS MY FIRST TIME CREATEING A BLOG AND I DONT KNOW WHAT IM DOING..LOL ANYWAY IM HERE LOOKIN 4 LOVE IM ONLY A STANDARD MEMBER SO I DONT KNOW IF I CAN POST ANYTHING I JUST THOUGHT I WOULD GIVE IT A TRY SO I DONT KNOW HOW IT WORKS CUZ I NEVER DID THIS BEFORE BUT U CAN ADD ME TO UR YAHOO MESSENGER MY ID IS YOBABYSDADDY6969@YAHOO.COM OR EMAIL ME BYE 4 NOW TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS I HOPE I DID THIS RIGHT..LOL

THOUGHTS BEFORE MIDNIGHT it's like you wanna be that person and you try to be that person but you can't cuz you're not that person you're you and you try to be happy with that but it seems like it's not enough it's not really what you want and it's not what you want to be and you try to change but the more you try the worse it becomes and you're just lost and you feel dumb for feeling that way and you try to change so you're not that way and think why can't I be more like that person and then you try to be like that person but you can't cuz you're not that person you're you and you try to be happy with that but it seems like it's not enough and it's not really want you want and it's not what you want to be and you try to change...

Hi! to all fildate members, im from Iligan city...i meet my husband here in this website, we get marred July 31,2008 at OH, USA. Thank you so much Fildate. Keep up the good work.. God bless you all who seek partner it really works, and im very happily marred for now. God speed.

hlO!!!!itZ mE mhAdE..fOr mE:) Im a siMplE but shAmE tYpE of pErsOn..i doNt likE tO gO anYwhErE excEpt iN schOoL aNd iN thE hOusE buT I lOvE hAngiNg ouT wiTh mY buDdiEs sOmEtimEs whEn iM bOrEd!.. wElL frOm mY friEnDs dEscrIpTioN theY saY im vErY uNdErstAndiNg aNd a tYpE of cAriNg bAbY!!!..hehehe a sweEt aNd fuNnY lOviNg dAughtEr fOr mY pArEnts aNd alsO fOr mY friEnDs.. Im a siMplE girL!..a girL thAt hAs mAnY aMbitiOn!!!..nOt oNlY fOr mYsElf buT aLsO fOr mY fAmilY!!!..mOodY!..lOvEs thE cOlOr piNk,,.whitE aNd bluE!!!.. a bo0kwOrm ( i lOvE reAdiNg boOks thAt sOmEtimEs, whEn i hAvE nOthiNg tO dO, i jusT fiNd mYsElf reAdiNg boOks at thE citY librArY! )!!.. I eAsilY gEt jEalOus!!..I AlwaYs mEss thiNgs up!..I dO bEliEvE iN dEstinY aNd hAppY eNdiNgs!!!..I wAnt mY lOvE stOrY tO bE a fAirY-tAlE,..likE-stOrY!-I lOvE bEiNg mYsElf, kuNg aNo akO, gAnun akO!!.. I saY whAt i wAnt tO saY!..I dO bEliEvE iN kArmA!!.. rOmAntic pErsOn!..aN attEntiOn sEekEr!!..EmOtiOnAl.-uN nA lAng muNa..!I lOvE mYsElf!! FrOm nOw..Im stilL studYiNg at AMA St AugustiNe UNivErsitY SchOoL of NursiNg tAkiNg up A cOursE of a BusinEss InfOrmAtiOn MaNagEmEnt aNd a grAduAtiNg studEnT.. I grEw up wiTh mY mOm aNd dAd wiTh a gOod mOrAl vAlu Es... I hAvE 3 yOuNgEr sistEr aNd 4 brOthErs aNd wErE alL alrEadY studYiNg,.whilE mY OldEr brOthEr is wOrkiNg At thE mArkEt OwNeD bY mY fAmilY.. mY hObbiEs ArE writiNg aNd cOmpOsiNg pOeMs...plaYiNg guitAr aNd plaYiNg anY spOrts activitiEs..

Hello,
This is my first post here, I am here looking for Love , care to write , please do so on oneonone5@hotmail.com,also please read my profile.No Scammers please!!Thanks..Nikhil

Beer Brothers A man walks into a pub and says, "Give me three pints of Guinness, please." So the bartender brings him three pints and the man proceeds to alternately sip one, then the other, then the third until they're gone. He then orders three more and the bartender says, "Sir, I know you like them cold, so you can start with one and I'll bring you a fresh one as soon as you're low." The man says, "You don't understand. I have two brothers, one in Australia and one in the States. We made a vow to each other that every Saturday night we'd still drink together. So right now, my brothers have three Guinness Stouts too and we're drinking together." The bartender thinks it's a wonderful tradition and every week he sets up the guy's three beers as soon as he enters in the bar. Then one week, the man comes in and orders only two. He drinks them, then orders two more. The bartender sadly says, "Knowing your tradition, I'd just like to just say that I'm sorry that one of your brothers died." The man replies, "Oh, my brothers are fine - I just quit drinking."

Hello, This is my first blog I hope you like it. I am hoping to find my true love here ... I hope to meet wonderful girls here and you will write to me at wisniceguy08@live.com......Do any of you girls have MSN messenger? That is my ID and my email... Well, write to me soon... Bye bye

Where is the Love? Does one really have to look for love? in my case, i grew up in a close knit family and coupled with a very long preparation in terms of career, I really did not feel the need for filial love. i was just so full of agape. But now, that career wise I am settled, there is that uncanny, unsettled feeling that I get whenever I feel that I am ready for a new adventure again, and I do think it is time to have that partner. before i was always on the waiting end, and i did not lack suitors, however, i really felt that it was not the right time. but now i'm trying to be more proactive also by making myself visible to the world, since i tend to be a very private person and takes me some coaxing to get out of my shell.. but i will never take out the chase from the men s territory.. Love is everywhere. it is there in the sunlight, it is there in the birds chirping happily outside my bedroom window. it is celebrated every minute of our lives. we just have to choose wisely how we celebrate it.

--- Letting Go --- A part of revoking one's vow... the sweetness and the commitment you've had before. Some things not really meant for ME. Bitterness is the natural element to occur because the moment when it is unchained we can't never be perfect not to have a dim in our hearts that maybe seen at instance. So much hurt and felt so painful inside but still not forgetting life is still at hand. Move on the is the common term they say but you can't move on unless you didn't take it off or rather show it off. It's like getting undressed with soiled garments... whatever you call it. Value to remember here is to ACCEPT the faults and the reality of SEPARATION and learn how to forgive what SCAR it had made. A part in our life that would make us versatile and deepen our spirits and enhance our genuine personality that no one matter how things disarrange or destroy still you can withstand it all because knowing that you have Him at your side... It's like you have the whole world with you. Moment like this very unexplainable and I don't need to explain to everybody why I being act like this. Some cite in our life that SILENCE and DEEP Thinking is required where to put the things it supposed to be and be corrected at once it is noticed. Been thinking about some outside thoughts that really bothers me and I believe that what acquaints us now is because of our past and still trapped within... How could imprisoned yourself from yourself also. I don't know all the answers but I look up to it that an individual like with TWO uniquely goody shoes can surpassed whatever may come. A thought that never leaves me is that I loved and be loved and that's my inherited characteristics which leads me always to let go but I will never get tired of LOVING...

I feared being alone until I learned to like myself. I feared failure until I realized that I only fail when I don't try. I feared success until I realized that I had to try in order to be happy with myself. I feared people's opinions until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway. I feared rejection until I learned to have faith in myself. I feared pain until I learned that it's necessary for growth. I feared the truth until I saw the ugliness in lies. I feared life until I experienced its beauty. I feared death until I realized that it's not an end, but a beginning. I feared my destiny, until I realized that I had the power to change my life. I feared hate until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance. I feared love until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days. I feared ridicule until I learned how to laugh at myself. I feared growing old until I realized that I gained wisdom every day. I feared the future until I realized that life just kept getting better. I feared the past until I realized that it could no longer hurt me. I feared the dark until I saw the beauty of the starlight. I feared the light until I learned that the truth would give me strength. I feared change, until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergo a metamorphosis before it could fly.

I appreciate for taking the time to read this. Hope it helps for you to get to know me just a li'l better... So here it is...
College Degree: Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communication
Hobbies and Interests: reading, singing, dancing, writing in my diary, collecting books & mags, cds/dvds, watching music channels, romantic - comedy & suspense-thriller movies, listening to r&b, ballad, & pop music, surfing the net, loves to sing at karaoke bars with friends
Favorite Books: Books by Susan E. Phillips, Linda Howard, The Power of Positive Thinking - Norman Vincent Peale
Favorite Movies: Runaway Bride, My Bestfriend's Wedding, A Walk to Remember, Serendipity, Sassy Girl, Cutting Edge, Ever After, Lord of the Rings 1-3, Never Been Kissed, Don't Say A Word, Constantine
Favorite Music: a variety of music frm pop, r&b, ballad, trance, a li'l bit of country, jazz, classic and alternative not much on rock, novelty is something that i can't stomach
Favorite TV Shows: Prison Break, Supernatural, Ghost Whisperer, Ugly Betty, 24, Charmed, CSI, American Idol, The Bachelor/Bachelorette, Buffy: The Vampire Slayer, Princess Hours, My Girl, Pinoy Big Brother, Seventh Heaven

An old lady sits on her front porch, rocking away the last days of her long life, when all of a sudden, a fairy godmother appears and informs her that she will be granted three wishes. ''Well, now,'' says the old lady, ''I guess I would like to be really rich.'' *** POOF *** Her rocking chair turns to solid gold. ''And, gee, I guess I wouldn't mind being a young, beautiful princess.'' *** POOF *** She turns into a beautiful young woman. ''Your third wish?'' asks the fairy godmother. Just then the old woman's cat wanders across the porch in front of them. ''Ooh - can you change him into a handsome prince?'' she asks. *** POOF *** There before her stands a young man more handsome than anyone could possibly imagine. She stares at him, smitten. With a smile that makes her knees weak, he saunters across the porch and whispers in her ear, ''Bet you're sorry you had me neutered

Hello Friends: Its so disappointing to know that a girl u think of inviting is not really a girl...its either a member of a third sx or doubtless sex. Also...some pictures posted are not meant to create the "real image". I wish that some of the members treat Fildate as a real site for real. Pls comment.. Thanks

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"Games" Who's Playing Who

As bad as it sounds, I think we all have been "played". And its not just us guys getting the game. As to why the game is played, that easy, Money
The same game is played in many different countries. The game is the same, no matter where.
Some of those, that play the game, take longer than others. Some take days, and some take weeks, but they all do the same, I need money and what they need the money for is always the same.

I think that all the sites should have areas to report the scammers, and it should be the first place to go, to see who's doing what.
Sadly to say the Philippines have these people too. But some are doing it just to hope to eat, a few hundred bucks can go along way

Hello to All
"Why does it have to be so hard to bring a person from the Philippines to the states ? Are they not a part of the United States ?
As in both countries, there are the good and the bad, and there should be checks to keep the bad out, but its the others, the ones that really want to come, that it is hard on.
I am learning more about the government in the Philippines and what problems that are within it. As with anything else, it all has to do with the dollar.
Something is wrong when people are going hungry in a country that has so much. Makes you wonder who's pockets are getting full

Hello Boys and Girls
I have been a long time member in fildate, and I think this is the best site I have seen or visited to meet so many different and diverse people.

But also with all the good you also have the bad. Like they say one bad apple spoils the barrel. Ever since joining fildate I have had my ups and downs also like many storys or blogs you read....... I cannot recount how many people I have met who were scammers, webcam girls, men (TS) posing as women, ladies telling me there sick, no school, no money to eat, mother is dying, father is sick and needs medicine ect.

So you see I have learned from painful experiences also. But hey I chalk it up to learning and life experiences. It seems men here play games as much as women now it seems from reading blogs. All I can say is if and when you leave fildate site and chat on yahoo or msn, or fav chat program yr on yr own.......

How you interact is all up to the 2 of you. An old karma rule > what goes around comes around< You play people they will play you.
We all want friends, pals, lovers, a good man and also a good women, sure we have fun chatting, and what you chat about is up to each, may it be good or bad.... as adults we have that that right.

Guys some of the ladies you meet maybe more inteligent then you so hmm give them a chance. And ladies not all men are bastos hehheeeeee

foot note Men if you meet a person with profiles of these people stay away:
tessie1983
carol1982
takene594
they are scammers and webcam girls
I know:) take all
airmech

Sometimes saying "I love you" just isn't enough, especially when it seemed like we're always going through stuff. Tests and trials come to make you strong. But, why am I the one who go through them alone? Love is patient, and yes love is kind. True love will stand until the end of time. The kind of love that will past every test. That love will be shown, and no one will have to guess. This is the love that I needed from you. But, why was it so hard for you to be true? Although I love you, I just needed more. Your love wasn't real, so I'm out the door.

Everyone Woman is looking for her Man... We Desire to be loved unconditionally and treated with respect as we would do our partner. We Desire to be wanted and made whole not because the person in our lives has too but because they want too. We Desire to be more than just a mother to our children, and a wife to our husband. A WOMAN!!! One of God's Greatest Gifts... We Aspire to be more than what you see. We see potential in a man's ability to be all he was placed on this Earth to achieve. We Aspire to have someone by our side that will be strong when we feel weak. We Aspire to have passion in our lives that will make our body speak from now until eternity. We Aspire to be enough for the man that says our life is in his hands as he lifts us up on a petal, and shows us we are exactly what he has been searching for when he didn't even know his eyes were looking, and his heart was longing for a woman that he now know completes him. We Desire and Aspire a Dedication that will seal the bond between two people that have planted a seed of friendship that blooms into love, then blossoms into lovers, that builds a strong foundation which allows us to focus on more then what we don't have and be thankful for the time we share. We are Dedicated to this love that may last a lifetime, although we may not get a chance to hold on to it forever........ So I reach out my hand to my D.A.D. because, there is nothing that can replace .The Desire to Aspire many years of Dedication.....that makes me feel like I will always and forever be his number one....LOVE

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren't the way you had hoped they would be, that's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down, but those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself and all that you are capable of. There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are, so when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be, because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you. Keep believing in yourself and what you are doing in life.

Why Do People Look Down on Each Other?

In these days a lot of people talk about tolerance and equal rights. The fact is that most people look down on each other because of their occupation, education, appearance, religion, culture, gender, sexual orientation, color of one's skin and a lot more. There's discrimination, suppression and racism all over the world. I think a lot of misunderstanding rises up because of prejudice, not knowing other cultures, religions and maybe many people are afraid of that and so they act in a hostile manner.

It makes me sad and furious at the same time that mankind hasn't learned from all wars, violence and injustice that happened in the last centuries. The people act in that way, they ever did, they waste all their energy fighting against each other. But I don't want to generalize. On the other hand, there are also many people/unions and groups who work hard for tolerance, respect and equal rights and against hostility and prejudice.

With the growing/developing globalization, mankind should be aware that all the different nations and countries only could live in peace when they learn to accept and respect the variety of their cultures, religions, backgrounds and history. I think it depends on each of us to contribute to this process.

Don't believe everything u see,read or decide for yourself what you are going to believe...

NO man is worths to a woman's tears the only one who worth her tears is the one who knows he could but would never,ever make her cry...

Love is not about finding the right person,but creating a right relationship.It's not how much LOVE you can have in the beginning but how much u build till the end...

Real Happiness and Inner Peace

Real happiness and peace can be found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Quran:

Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest. (Quran, 13:28)

On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Quran will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:

But whoever turns away from the Quran,1 he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment. (Quran, 20:124)

This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.

Here I sit, far from the storm, but I still am thinking of those in the Islands and what trouble they are having. So far the ladys that I have talked to, live in different parts of the island and the storm did not affect them, much Many are without power, so guys, if you cant seem to get in touch with the special lady, pick up a news paper, check on-line, the skys have opened up and they are getting dumped on ! If there are any ladys that would like to chat, this could also lead into something else, but would like to up-date us dumb Americans on how things are going, we would like that word from you, at least I would. I know, that somewhere there is a mother looking at her son or daughter and saying, "What did you do this time to piss god off", you know how moms are, ya they are!

Wrote this when I was feeling down and been through a lot. Just putting it out there to see what you think. No I do not think that all men are like this. I know that there are good men out there and I am waiting for God to send him my way. Men Always Leave You say that you care, and they laugh in your face They've got you now, it's no longer a race They've won and you are the ultimate prize He got what he wanted, so now it's goodbye It was good while it lasted, but it was all a lie It was all just a game, one that was well planned And you fell in his trap, melted like butter in his hands You are just a leaf on his tree of many women Your love had you trapped, like a convict in prison He has left you now, even though you begged on your knees So let this be a lesson to you, that men always leave

WHAT MAKES U COMPLETE IN A RELATIONSHIP? For me to be complete in a relationship the lines of communication have to be open enough to be able to discuss things before they become problems. That means what ever problem that may arise should be aired before the relationship get deeper. Whether it is sexually, mentally, or physically or emotionally. I know men are going to be like "here we go again", but this goes both ways because if things are going on in the relationship that you don't care for you should be able to bring it to the table instead of sweeping the problem under it.

A little bit more of :
as written on my profile :
I'm searching for real a young asian lady to live with me.
I'm not here for games or else..

The girl I search has to be nice and pretty, often smiling and sweet.
I like long hairs, slim and gentle girls loving to take care of me.
From 20-35, she has to be sexy too and if she likes to pose for our own pleasure,
or for more to be model, it's a must too.
She will be my partner, my muse, my lover. Bisex girls are really welcome.
She doesn't have to be jealous because of my work
As photograph-editor in charm-glamour domain and fairs organizer :
I work with some real beauties here in Europe since a long time now.)

I'm also not jealous and if she loves me she could do all she wants,
I don't want to put my lovely partner in a kind of jail ! :-):-)..
Lovely kisses
Max

I don't DON'T ADD in messenger immediatly...
because I don't use that often it takes me too much time (I'm real busy)
I prefer some mails exchanges before with some other pictures of YOU

Dear Deary Cream, Today is not a good day!I was so bored and I dont enjoy my vacation.I just wondering that I go in some pretty places like Boracay,Palawan,Bohol,and many more..I imagine those places that could make me happy...But in real world I am simple and lonesome....I love to go to the world of paradise....Kaya niyo yan?Ooz by the way I am Ann Bernadeth Manlunas...Just Call my name and I'll be there...They say I'm a strict woman,well I say know me first and soon youll find out that your wrong...Kaya dont judge me becoz your not a judge and I'm not a book... I love myself and I love those who really love me....I hope malathala ang aking diary to all....I want them to know me as a being.....I love you guys..... Always touching you, Amber

hello to all.. this is my first blog her on FIL-DATE im new her hope to see someone who can love me. im just a simple guy out ther.. .. who is sweet,nice and caring and fun to be with... open to all just want to be friendly no age limit.. and dont be shy im a open minded type of a guy.. ... hope you hear from you.. just hit me back

I am hoping to find my true love here ... this is my second blog but i have to direct all men here online...to let them know the value of every woman... " Be very careful if u make a woman cry because God counts her tears.Every tear a woman shed is equivalent of man's sacrifices in his life..The woman came from a man's rib,not on his feet to stepped on not on his head to be superior,but on his side to be equal.UNder his arms to be protected and near to his heart to be loved..."

Do Reconciliations and Second Chances Ever Work?

Getting Back Together With an Ex Love? Do Second Chances and Reconciliations Ever Work?

In all of my experiences, the answer has been no, although I have heard that there are exceptions. One thing that I am fairly certain of is that the odds are stacked against you from the beginning of a reconciliation attempt.

Both partners must be equally willing to let go of the past, and be willing to meet the issues that lead to the break up in the first place head on. If these issues can't be resolved by BOTH partners then there is very little chance of a happy relationship. Sure, you can stay in a relationship where the underlying issues are never resolved, but will you be happy? Will your guilts, fears, and resentments ever fade away when the original problems start to resurface again? (Which they most certainly will!)

I'm not trying to persuade anyone into thinking that they shouldn't give their relationship, or marriage a second chance. Second chances DO work, for SOME people, SOME of the time. First of all I would suggest making a list of all the reasons why your relationship didn't work the first time around. Be as honest with yourself as you can, because if you have a "all his fault", or "all her fault" mentality your wasting your time anyway. Make a list for partner AND yourself. Surely your weren't a Saint in all aspects of the relationship. If for some miraculous reason you really don't feel that you brought ANY of the problems to the table, you might want to ask yourself if you really want to be with someone that brought so much grief and turmoil to your life.

Now, after you made out your list, you need to go over it and check off the ones that are "Fixable" in your opinion. How will you fix them, and will your partner be willing to try to do his/her part to fix them as well? Believe me when I say, infidelity definitely weighs more, than if they have a problem throwing their wet towel in the hamper after they take a shower.

We all have different personalities, and different capabilities for forgiveness. How much can you honestly forgive in this relationship? If you can no longer feel safe and secure when they leave town for a week, how is this going to make you feel? When you see them again, will you be able to give them a hug without feeling the coldness of "What If" it happened again? If infidelity was indeed a problem, and you feel as if you can fully trust them again, then MAYBE, this is fixable for you. In my case it was not.

It all comes down to a MUTUAL attempt between you and your significant other to strip your relationship down to the core. Lay every thing out on the table. Let them know what you need for this relationship to work.. Also make sure that you know what THEY need for this relationship to work. You both have to reach a common ground of commitment.

Many people are afraid to be on their own. They have been in a relationship for so long, just the thought of being alone is terrifying. There is not a website out there that can give YOU all the answers to what YOU are looking for. Everything has to come from within yourself. What your willing to put up with. What is your definition of happiness. What will make you be content with your life. Are your kids really benefiting watching you be in a bad relationship? Honesty to yourself is the most important thing in my opinion. We all deserve to be happy in this life, and so do you! Try not to live hanging with too many regrets and everything will work out. This is our one shot at life, and we all deserve peace, prosperity, and happiness.

What to Do if You Screw Up

We all make mistakes; it’s a part of being human and fallible. But if you’re like most people, you feel terrible whenever it happens. The reason, as most business coaches and motivational experts will tell you, is that people mostly just want to do a good job. Studies in the past have shown that while money is a key factor in human performance levels, being appreciated for talent and hard work ranks even higher.

It follows then, that when we don’t get it right the first time, or we let someone down, or we don’t meet expectations, we feel badly about it. Some people feel so badly that they block out this emotion, instead projecting the blame on others so they won’t have to face being imperfect.

People who feel secure in themselves, however, have a different way of looking at mistakes. Instead of dwelling in them, or living in denial about them, or searching for a scapegoat, they are able to recognize and acknowledge when they’ve acted in error, correct the mistake, and recover. So, what do you do when you’ve tried your best, but things didn’t work out and now you’ve got a big mess to clean up?

Answer: just clean it up and move on.

Some tips for recovering from an accidental screw-up:

1. Remember that this is not the end of the world. Even if something pretty major happened, like getting fired from your job… eventually it will all untangle in the end. When things fall apart, they give us room to rebuild from a stronger foundation. Though today may not be your best day, the future is full of promise.

2. Keep it in perspective. An occasional flub is no reason to beat yourself up. Try to look at what happened in the here-and-now. If you inadvertently offended someone, it doesn’t mean that you’re a social misfit, worthy of mockery and a public flogging. It just means you’ve got some apologizing and clarifying to do.

3. Get back up on the horse. People always say that after you get in an accident, you should get right back in the saddle or driver’s seat. Likewise, in your life… the longer you wait to put things on the mend, the more paralyzed by fear you’ll become. Remember that if you’ve set good goals for yourself, then minor setbacks shouldn’t derail you from that plan.

4. Take responsibility for your actions. Some people think that taking responsibility requires that we hang our heads in shame when we do something wrong. But there is no reason to associate responsibility with humiliation. It’s really just about owning up and saying “I’m going to make a plan for how to fix this,” and then doing that.

5. Don’t get caught up in the past. Suppose someone tells you they aren’t happy with a job that you completed for them. In your mind, you might flash back to a similar time when someone criticized your work. You even forget about the other 90% of the time when your work pleased someone. This type of negative thinking moves you farther away from what you really want - which is to rectify things. Why not just find out what needs to be done, and nip the issue in the bud?

6. Communicate and cooperate. The mistakes that impact us more deeply are the ones that involve other people. What if someone thinks less of us because we fouled up? The first thing you should do here is ‘fess up and own up. Keep the lines of communication open. Most reasonable people are willing to work with you on a problem that needs solving. The fact is that it’s easy to mess up in this day and age. We have the speed of technology, careening us down unexpected roads. We’re also busier than ever. Many parents work full-time and share the child-rearing and household responsibilities equally with their spouse. Lots of people work from home or take work home with them, putting extra pressure on to perform during “off peak” hours. It’s no wonder we’re having so much trouble keeping our heads on straight! What it all boils down to, is survival. Can you really afford to remain at the mercy of accidental circumstances? Or is it better to just acknowledge, accept, repair and move on to the next goal? The worst thing that can happen is someone notices that you took extra pains to make it right.

Sometimes we have to fight the person we love even if it we take the risk cz we thought it worth it to fight for...cz it's that we want and then it's t worth it all..

My tears run down like razorblades And no, I'm not the one to blame It's you ' or is it me? And all the words we never say Come out and now we're all ashamed And there's no sense in playing games When you've done all you can do But now it's over, it's over, why is it over? We had the chance to make it Now it's over, it's over, it can't be over I wish that I could take it back But it's over I lose myself in all these fights I lose my sense of wrong and right I cry, I cry It's shaking from the pain that's in my head I just wanna crawl into my bed And throw away the life I led But I won't let it die, but I won't let it die But now it's over, it's over, why is it over? We had the chance to make it Now it's over, it's over, it can't be over I wish that I could take it back I'm falling apart, I'm falling apart Don't say this won't last forever You're breaking my heart, you're breaking my heart Don't tell me that we will never be together We could be, over and over We could be, forever I'm falling apart, I'm falling apart Don't say this won't last forever You're breaking my heart, you're breaking my heart Don't tell me that we will never be together We could be, over and over We could be, forever It's not over, it's not over, it's never over Unless you let it take you It's not over, it's not over, it's not over Unless you let it break you It's not over

Hello: This is my first ever blog. Finding a true love is painstakin. It's either u get a gold digger or just a temporary love. Most couples i've spoke with find marriage a soul digging of another soul. The indication of discovering others compatibility is difficult to establish. Mood changes arrive unexpectedly.sooner ul ask urself...r we meant for each other or did i make the right decision? Thanks....

My name is Scott and I live in Midlothian, Va. Midlothian is a small town located outside of the Capitol City of Richmond.

I am currently seperated from my wife of nine years in the divorce process. We have a wonderful Seven year old son who I love very much. As he lives with his mother, I miss his company when he's not here.

My job is with a major retailer here in the USA and I have been employed by them as a department manager for approximately six years now.

Personal interests of mine include, reading, studying, spending time with my son, working on an antique car that I own, travelling, walking on the beach and the list could go on.

I am loyal, loving, honest person. I made a mistake that took nine years to correct and I am not in a hurry to make another mistake. But I am am interested in a long term relationship that will lead toward marriage.

Over the last several years I have become active with a church based there iin the Phillipines. While I would like for my match to be of the same faith as I am, I don't require it. I only ask that you respect my faith and love me for who I am. If you think you can do that, then let's chat sometime.

Hi this is my first blog for this site. I really dont know what to expect when i signed up for this, however i am hoping to meet a lot of people on this site. So let's just see what happens and hope you all have a good day! Mwahhh! Ciao !

hello, this is my first blog i hope you like it,

people should know me better and i 'm here for looking to the right guy who can leave with the rest of my life.. i'm a kind a of girl who love to dance and hang it out with my friends..

im nice,funny and very carring..

I am hoping to find my true love here..

Im willing to meet all guys here..
no matter what look, age that you have.. its fine for me..

We come to LOVE not by finding a PERFECT person,

but by learning to LOVE an IMPERFECT person, perfectly!!!!

Sometimes, we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of our hearts. We all fall in love, and there are times that we love so much that we lose ourselves in our own emotions. More often than not, we wonder where there are love that grows, and love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong. But in the end, we find ourselves where we started. We cannot question love when it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been - silent, mysterious, and deeply profound. Many of us believe that LOVE is FOREVER, that LOVE NEVER DIES, only to be dissolution to the end. When we find our hands empty, and our hearts longing, we mistakenly look at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands, for we may never find a strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it lasts. And then freely open our hearts when it's time to say GOODBYE. When we fall in love with someone, we don't want that feeling to end, for it is everything we are and everything that we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But if it doesn't, then we should never let our own lives be taken by it. For life should never end where heartache begins. There's always a reason why we have to move on... When we have to say goodbye to the feeling we wanted to stay forever. Let us not wave our hands with a HEAVY HEART, for love will have to set its wings free and find a place where it belongs. We may have LOST it, but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever. Then we'll know that it never left us..for the good that we have become because of love will always stay. It will always be there reminding us that we should be THANKFUL and HAPPY, not because we have LOST LOVE, but because, for once in our lives, that  feeling lived in our HEARTS and made us happy.

It's so funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love, while at the back of our minds we know that the person we truly love will always be an exception.

There would come a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person started hating us but because we found out that they'd be happier if we let them go... You will know when you really love someone when you want him to be happy even if their happiness means you are not a part of it.

If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reasons he couldn't stay, don't cry too much... just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while.

There are some things that we never want to let go of...people we never want to leave behind; but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, but rather it is the beginning of a new life.

Remember that the best relationship is when your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.

Two tear drops were floating down the river. One teardrop said to the other, "I'm the teardrop of a girl who loved a man and lost him. Who are you?"..." I'm the teardrop of the man who regret letting a girl go..."

You'll know that you miss someone very much when everytime you think of that person, your heart breaks into pieces and just a quick "Hello" from that person can bring the broken pieces back...

When you love someone, draw a circle around their name instead of a heart because hearts can be broken but circles never end.

"Every step I took since the moment I could walk was a step towards finding you."

You don't want to let go; but it's even more painful to ask someone to stay if you can never make the relationship work out the way it should be.

LOVE? it's kind of complicated, but I'll tell you this...the second you're willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy, that's love right there...

Giving someone all your love is not an assurance that he will love you back. Don't expect love in return, wait for it to grow in his heart, if it doesn't, be contented it grows in you.

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to fall in love with someone but it takes a lifetime to really forget someone you have grown to love.Â

Of all the words of tongue and pen, these are the saddest: "It could have been..."

No garden is complete without a rose to make it sweet. No life is ever full without someone to share it with, so take care of the person you love.

When all the wishes in your heart, all the dreams you've ever had, and all the things you've always hoped for soared into the sky and were reflected in someone else's eyes; then you've found your destiny...

It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available, best to wait for the one you love than the one who's around, best to wait for the right one because life is too short to be wasted on the wrong person.

Relationships are like glass, sometimes it is better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together, or worse, have nothing strong to bind it together.

Don't throw your back to love when it's already in front of you, don't drive it away from you because if you did, someday you'll think again why you let love fly away when it was once next to you.

When you look for the right person, you always end up with the wrong one. But when you just sit by the corner and wait, he comes along and shares the corner with you.

"If I know what love is, it is because of you"

Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale, anonymous quotation...

happy hours when I may once more encircle within these arms the dearest object of my love- when I shall again feel the pressure of that 'aching head' which will delight to recline upon my bosom, when I may again press to my heart which palpitates with the purest affection that loved one who has so long shared its undivided devotion....

Love me without fear / Trust me without questioning / Need me without demanding / Want me without restrictions / Accept me without change / Desire me without inhibitions...

You're nothing short of my everything....

The Happiest of people don't necessaily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything there cmes along thier way!

why it is hard to say what is needed to be said? LOVE change me: the way i think, the way i act, the way i decide. sometimes i even go against my principles and beleifs in life. loving doesn't mean i'll be happy always. sometimes, all it provides me is pain and misery.. yet i was blinded by strong emotions that i failed to see reality... sometimes letting go is the answer; it hurts like hell, but i will soon realize it's better to suffer the pain and see the person i love to be happy! it's heart breaking when i decided to give my heart and no one would like it... but it's even sadder when someone takes it, promise to care for it and then give it back broken!

You opened this, FILL IT OUT! Learn 50 1. How tall are you barefoot? 5’5” (around there or somewhere in there) 2. Have you ever smoked? No. .No and Never...Never (I am naturally born asthmatic) 3. Do you own a gun? Yeah… water Gun ( I put holly water on it) 4. Do you hate someone right now? I hate someone who is capable of carrying out such morbid thougths.… (it’s always makes me want to be sad) 5. Do you get nervous? At times 6.What do you think of hotdog... Why they’ are called as such? A dog that is HOT and they are called such “lip-smacking”! 7. What's your favorite Christma s song? ”WHEN JESUS WAS A TINY BABY” 8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning? Hot Choco with Milk 9. Can you do push ups? i can push down! 11.What' s your favorite piece of jewelry? Crown 12. Do you like painkillers? yeah! can't live w/o 'em 13. What is your secret weapon? GOD’s LOVE 14. Do you own a knife? I've got stab, i don't need 'em though… 15. Do you have H.I.V? I still haven’t gone to a test YET! 16. Name? melods, yaktak, melody, melot , penot…WHATEVER! 17. Name 3 things u wanna do at this exact moment? THINK, THINK AND THINK… 18. Name the last 3 things you have bought lately: douche (for my pet), SIOMAI and 1 sack of bubble gum! 19. Name 3 drinks you regularly drink: water, tea, milk. 20. What time did you wake up today? around 7am 22. Current worry? not getting married at age of 28  23.Current hate? does "HATE" really exist?!? 24. Favorite place to be? PLACE WITH ZERO CRIME RATE: living room, dining room, prayer room, confession room, beach, internet café, bohol, danao. Lapu-lapu, cebu, my office and HOME! 25. least favorite place to be? HAZARDOUS PLACES, RESTRICTED AREA, FIRE ENTRANCE….elsewhere?!?.... 26. Where would you like to go? i want to get to that place in life where I don't need. lol what ever that means.. 27.Do you own slippers? I own slipper's factory! 28. What shirt are you wearing? right now? well, i can’t answer that ‘coz somebody undressed me here. 31. Would you like to be a pirate? NAH… I am only one of its kind and nobody here in this world who can replicate me NOT even myself… 32. Last time you had an alcoholic drink? 3 months ago… 33. What songs do you sing in the shower? I am hanging on every word you say And even if you don't want to speak tonight That's alright, alright with me 'Cause I want nothing more than to sit Outside heaven's door and listen to you breathing Is where I want to be 34. What did you fear was going to get you at night as a child? Some falling angels 35.What's in your pocket/s right now? Mobile phone (w/no load), I got 50 bucks here. 36. Last thing that made you laugh? Laughing has been part of my day 37. last thing that made you cry? When HE Gave up while I was giving in! 38. Worst injury you've ever had? nabali ang sanga sa bunsay unya natagak ko…huhuhu.. it hurts.. Seriously; I was been a victim of emotional abused and had been emotionally forsaken; that was the greatest grievance of my HEART! 40. How many cellphones do you have? half? I got six, four of them were in trouble and I still can’t discharge ‘em all…CHARING.... IRING KIBOL! 41. Who is your loudest friend? ABELARDO (the screaming fagot) RESURECION (sorry for pronouncing your name) FAMILY (they are NUTS); and some fugly sluts... 42. your most silent friend? JUAN TIDALGO (he is naturally born deaf and mute) MYSELF (kon lowbat ko) Ate Cindy (Naturally born speechless) 43. last movie sa big screen? NEXT then sa dvd? MUSIC AND LYRICS (on big screen) While you where sleeping and the big hit ( I watch them every weekend in DVD) 44. What is your favorite book? ” the STORY of my LIFE” Author: MELODY O. BOYONAS 45. What is your favorite chocolate? Hershey’s and snickers bar with almond nuts, Yummy! 47. What song do/did you want to play at your wedding? ”LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS” , “ALL MY LIFE”...and BAWAL NA GAMOT!heheh 48. What were you doing 12 AM last night? Blowing my horn while I was sleeping! I really did it… 49. What was the First thing you did today? Taking my med ‘coz niataki akong hubak!! Ppssstttt…ayaw saba’ng mama… 50 . What was the last thing you did the day before yesterday? I Called a service to do body massage for me,…oh my…I can’t remember what happened next

20 things u don't knw bout ME... 1. Favorite song mo ngaun? answer: ”YOU BELONG TO ME” – By: jason wade 2 . Online ka ba? answer: this time? what do you think? do i really have to answer this question?! 3. May mahal ka ba ngaun? answer: YES, I LOVE GOD and my Family… 4. Mahal mo pa ba sya? answer: forever and a day! 5. Mahal ka ba nya? answer: I’m sure … all the way and all out!! 6. May crush ka ba ngaun? answer: HELL YES! 7. if isa kang hayop ano ka? answer: a Dog with Human instinct 8. sinong gusto mong matira sa bahay ni kuya? answer: gusto kung makita si kuya na nakatira sa bahay nya...har...har..har!! 9. nanunuod ka ba ng hwang jini? answer: Yes, she is a fugly slut! 10. Favortie subject mo ngaun? answer: Finding a Husband…and Finding NEMO 11. mahal mo pa ba xa? answer: si kinsa gud? 12. kuntento ka na ba sa buhay mo? answer: I live in a SIMPLE and FULL LIFE… ohh wow….i could not really ask for anything more... 13. sinong namimiss mo ngaun? BIG BRO -ZMOHT 14. sinong favorite mong prof? answer: prof X,Y & Z or whoever! 15. ready ka na bang magmahal ulit? answer: i've been loving all my life.... 16. anung ginagawa mo ngaun? answer: nag-answer ani..bugo nimo stiha ka oi! haaahayyy…resurecsion copy ko imo answer ha,,, bryt bitaw ka…har har har…hek..hek...! 17. may iniisip ka ba ngaun? answer: unsaon nako pag utot , kautoton na kaayo ko nya daghan tawo diri sa internet café.. 18. english o tagalog? answer: TagLish 19. Rate the survey 1- 20 .. answer: 50% rate 21? wonder wat's this for?? answer: could it be a "one hit wonder"??????????? 20. Anung gusto mong sabihin sa kanya? answer: Today, tommorow and forever there will be one heart that would always beat for you. you know whose??? your own stupid!!!

I just can't get you you're the one that never lets me sleep to my mind, down to my soul you touch my lips you're the one that i can't wait to see with you here by my side i'm in ecstasy i am all alone without you my days are dark without a glimpse of you but now that you came into my life i feel complete the flowers bloom, my morning shines and i can see your love is like the sun that lights up my whole world i feel the warmth inside your love is like the river that flows down through my veins i feel the chill inside every time i hear our music play reminds me of the things that we've been through in my mind i can't believe it's true but in my heart the reality is you

do you wanna know WHAT I LIKE???? It sure looked good on paper Until we read between the lines, It always hurts when you find You're running out of "letters" and "maybe next times" When you can almost read my mind... I like the romance, The slow dance, The staying out all night, I like the Christmas lights all year round; Why put 'em up, take 'em down? I watch baseball Hates the mall Hangs out with the guys; That's what you know about what’s I like. I’M all about the rainbow But not the one on Sunset Boulevard. you got it wrong, i took it hard And it really hurts to let go When I’m so close To making it so far, you should've known that you Never could've known that you Could ever know enough about me To keep me yours And now you realized... what the hell do you know about what I like....... January 22, 2008

IT DOES MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD! 1. Falling in love. 2. Laughing so hard your face hurts. 3. A hot shower. 4. No lines at the supermarket 5. A special glance. 6. Getting mail 7. Taking a drive on a pretty road. 8. Hearing your favorite song on the radio. 9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside. 10. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer. 11. Chocolate milkshake. (or vanilla or strawberry!) 12. A bubble bath. 13. Giggling. 14. A good conversation. 15. The beach 16. Finding a 20 dollar bill in your coat from last winter. 17. Laughing at yourself. 18. Holding a newborn baby. 19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours. 20. Running through sprinklers. 21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all. 22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful. 23. Laughing at an inside joke. 24. Friends. 25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you. 26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep. 27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner). 28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones. 29. Playing with a new puppy. 30. Having someone play with your hair. 31. Sweet dreams. 32. Hot chocolate. 33. Road trips with friends. 34. Swinging on swings. 35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger. 36. Making chocolate chip cookies. 37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies. 38. Holding hands with someone you care about. 39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change. 40. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much desired present from you. 41. Watching the sunrise. 42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day. 43. Knowing that somebody misses you. 44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply. 45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think.

hi there!! I'm 6 months pregnant,presently looking for friends online to defeat my boredom in just staying at home.hope you'll accept me as one...glad to know more about you and to learn more from you.thanks

I cannot say that I am surprised in terms of context as to what I have read in the foregoing blogs.

I am however overwhelmed by the outpouring of grief on lost love.

This piece by Paulo Coelho is a philosophical argument on the importance of moving on. So read on..

Closing Cycles by Paulo Coelho

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters - whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that. But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot forever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back. Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.

That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts - and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place. Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the "ideal moment." Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person - nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust. Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

Hello to All!!! MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

When a love interest comes knocking at your door, how do you know when an old scars have been healed enough to let love in.

There isn't a way to know exactly when the right time to begin a new relationship..

Is it when your ready to analyze your heart's state of affair? Many of us use relationships as a way to help fix ourselves.

Sometimes, what we thought we wanted didn't even come close to what we really needed.

Make sure to identify the real sources of desire before beginning a new relationship.

hello all >> Kumasta ka and salamat for reading

well it has been a tumucious 2 months.... for me...

I lived and died all in one 1/2 months. But thanks to some memebers and some individuals I have come to learn life carries on no matter what.

No matter how one may inflict pain >> the pain is always there. There is a way to move on. A profile >> A screen name>>>> a person at the other end does not garrntee a life of love. We al seek the same. Rich or poor.. we all seek the same.

Love is a universal idea... no matter who and what you are or where you come from.? God made Us as best as he could.... diff yes but he made you amd me... thats what makes us all diff. to love and enjoy our diff.... and to understand or learn to grow with that diff.?

Truth be knowen>> yes I was hurt. thats way I just come and hang out.... When you get your mind rippied out from yr *** from a women what can you say?????????

Oh Honey I love you.... RIPP ohhhh sorry I have to go>> my flight is off to korea.

Is anyone real anymore in ths world.???? I WONDER

AIRMECH

Someday you’re gonna realize One day you’ll see this through my eyes By then I won’t even be there I’ll be happy somewhere Even if I cared I know you don’t really see my worth You think you’re the last guy on earth Well I’ve got news for you I know I’m not that strong But it won’t take long Won’t take long Someday someone’s gonna love me The way I wanted you to need me Someday someone’s gonna take your place One day I’ll forget about you You'll see, I won't even miss you Someday someday Right now I know you can tell I’m down and I’m not doing well But one day these tears they will all run dry I won’t have to cry, sweet goodbye Coz' someday someone’s gonna love me The way I wanted you to need me Someday someone’s gonna take your place oohh.. One day I’ll forget about you You'll see, I won't even miss you someday, i know someone's gonna be there Someday someone’s gonna love me The way I wanted you to need me Someday someone’s gonna take your place One day I’ll forget about you You'll see, I won't even miss you Someday someday.. yeah...

An ancient greek myth say that the 1st humans to walk the earth were hermafroids and that means male and female in the same body and they culd mate and make children by theyr own! but after some time these ppl stop honnoring the gods starting to believe that they culd be gods ! so they made ZEUS the father of all mortals and imortals ( the headgod of the 12 ansiend gods of olympus*)angry and he with his lightning cut them in to 2 separateing them to male and femmale and since then we all try desperedly to find our other half our soulmate ! *olympus is the bigest mounten in greece it is in central greece and it was the house of the gods

Guys and Gals,

I'm saddened when I heard from the grapevine that a lot of good friends (mostly non-Filipinos) were victimized by internet scammers from this and from other dating sites as well.

I want you all to know that I'll be glad to help anyone who needs assistance in verifying whether the person they wanted to meet or have been talking to is "real" or not.


Get a hold of me!

Legionnaire

Add by Administrator: If anyone encounters someone asking for money and trying to scam please report them to me...also read thie page Rules/Aviod Scams to learn how to butter understand if your getting fooled.

Wisdom is the sharing of wise experiences and knowledge, but a lot of it is common sense. The difference is how we apply this common sense - we all have the ability to keep going even when we face challenges in our lives - basically it comes down to our attitude.

hello lady citizens of the world....i do believe in serendipity and i like girls who can manage herself well,independent minded and knows how to evaluate with every moments circumstances.if you think your the one ive been talking about for some period of time,then why dont you send me an e mail so we can share our completenes with each other.....great things come in every expectancy and struggles about finding the right one.....THANKS FOR READING THIS BLOG ENJOY LIFE EVERY SINGLE MOMENT..

Hello,
This is my first blog I hope you like it.

I am hoping to find my true love here ...

and getting to know who can be with me for my near future will be....





send me a mail if you guys are the one that i am looking for ok...





plus.... i will tell guys who like me that i need a supporter not a sex adict on here ok....

Hi guys and gals!

I just want you all to know that I'm here to look for friends and to help out people. So feel free to send me an email or a private message about friendship, love and other points of interests.

I'll be more than happy to give advice. Guys are welcome too, especially non-Filipinos! If you have questions pertaining to Filipinas, who else can give you the best advice but a Filipino, right?

Thanks and have a nice day, everyone!

Legionnaire

Hello there everyone,

This is my 1st blog and i hope someone will notice this. i have been searching for my one real love. i have met a few but its still the same. im still alone and lonely.

I am hoping to find my real love here and pls, i only want a man who is serious enough about relationship and where it could possibly lead to..take care and God bless us all..

it hurts to say goodbye to someone
that you almost give your life to
knowing that life won't be the same without that person
but its better to give up the feeling rather
than to know that your the only one fighting.....

treat your life as the sea,
your heart as the shore
and your friends as the waves.....
it doesn't matter how many waves there are...
what matters is, which one that touches the shore.....

lately, i learned that friendship is the best relationship...... we may go separate ways, live different lives, believe in different aspects.....but as long as we believe we're friends, we'll forever be....

Thinking of tomorrow bring tears to my eyes,
co'z tomorrow we might have to say goodbye.
but if tomorrow should be the end,
the best memory i'd take with me was the day you became my FRIEND......

Love, as defined by the dictionary, is strong affection and warm attachment for something. From this definition, one may stop and ask, "Does this truly define love?" In my opinion, it doesn't define it at all. No one can truly define love without the use of actions. Nothing can define it as closely as the true feeling of love can.

A meeting between two beings who complete one another, who are made for each other, borders already, in my opinion, on a miracle.

What is love and how can we define love? Love is considered as one of most precious and greatest gifts of all from mankind. Love plays a major role in each one of our lives by the surrounding people such as family, friends, and significant of others. Love defined as an emotional expression in displaying our feeling of caring, sharing, giving, nurturing for others. Love serves as an unique inspiration to every mankind with an essence meaning of peace and friendship.

Love displays its own meaning in different showcase such as a relationship between a mother and her child, a man and a woman, a brother and sister, and friends, an mankind. Take a mother's love for her child, for instance. A mother's undying love for her children is countless and precious that no diamond jewel can be replaced. She is like a guardian angel always protecting them from harm. She will always stand by their side from thick through thin and rescuing them from falling.

A mother's undying love for her children is showing through her heart with the thoughts of giving and sharing that no others can fill. She does anything to make her children happy and safe even making sacrifices and putting herself at last.

Another kind of love, for example, like friendship is defined by the quality of one's heart and kindness. Friendship is not about a matter of judging by one own appearance, but rather by the inner beauty. It's the descent heart and golden mind that earn the love and the respect. Friendship is not measured by a person's status of poor or rich but by the content of their own character. Friendship is about reaching out and seeking help of others and putting a smile on others's face. In conclude, true love can only be earned and given and it can't be bought or sold. In all the secret to receive love is to give back.

Love is not having to say "Let's make love," because you know what the other person wants.
It's understanding.

Hi !!My name is Wengie Sasam ,I'am almost 24 years old and I keep thinking that its time for me to fine someone special. By the way I live in the countryside of cebu philippines , My sister she got married to an american man about 9 years ago , They have two beautiful girls , When i see my haft & haft nieces , I found this interesting how beautiful they are , I'm so very attracted to an american man this is the reason why ? I decided to join on this website , I'm here to fine an american man for good and I just wan't to let you know guys that I'm not playing games with you ? Thank's for reading this hopefully you like it .

"It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."